New Roles, New Chapter
“New roles are mirrors of personal growth, reflecting our diversity.”
This new year, I find myself at a fresh starting point in life. Stepping into the roles of a freelance writer, life coach, and cultural exchange facilitator, I am learning to balance and integrate these identities, discovering a multifaceted yet complete self.
The Identity of a Writer
Becoming a freelance writer sounds romantic, but in reality, it is a journey grounded in persistence. Every morning, I sit at my desk and write 1,000 words. This is a solemn ritual and a conversation with myself. As Haruki Murakami once said, “Writing is lonely, but it is full of possibilities.”
In the world of writing, I have found the power of self-expression.
At the same time, I feel insecure. I can’t help but ask myself: Can I really produce words worth reading? Whenever doubts arise, I go for a walk by the river, letting the fresh air carry away the weight of those thoughts. I remind myself that writing is a way of “being myself.” Even if no publisher accepts my work, I am happy to leave these writings for future generations, treating them as a private collection of memories.
Inspiration from Life Coaching
In New Zealand and Australia, many female writers also take on roles as life coaches, a phenomenon that has inspired me.At the beginning of 2024, I earned my life coaching certification. This role not only allows me to help others but also offers new perspectives and material for my writing. If I were to live in Sri Lanka in the future, I would set aside 3 to 5 hours weekly to listen, guide, and support more people as a life coach.
The Challenge and Opportunity of Public Speaking
In exploring these new roles, I’ve noticed an intriguing phenomenon: Many writers in Western countries are not only excellent writers but also exceptional public speakers. In contrast, public speaking is often an overlooked skill in Asian cultures, particularly among women. Like many, I feel shy and unconfident when speaking in front of a group of audiences.
I once tried creating a podcast on my blog to connect with readers more directly through voice. After a few attempts, I deleted the column because I felt my public speaking skills were insufficient. However, this experience deepened my awareness of the importance of public speaking and strengthened my resolve to improve this skill in the future.
Years ago, I joined the Women Toastmaster Club in Christchurch, where I practiced public speaking with a group of outstanding women members every Friday noon. Although I couldn’t participate consistently due to work commitments, the brief experience taught me valuable techniques and ways of thinking. Yet, I still feel my understanding of this skill is “half-baked,” which is one of the main reasons for my lack of confidence.
In the future, I plan to take up the challenge of public speaking again. From systematic practice to small-scale attempts, I will gradually break through the limits I’ve set for myself. I believe that platforms like Toastmasters will help me accumulate experience step by step. Eventually, I hope to engage in deeper interactions with readers through online meetings or face-to-face encounters.
This process won’t be easy, but I believe every effort is a step toward confidence. As a writer, I aim not only to touch hearts with words but also to connect with more people through voice and thought.
A Vision for Cultural Exchange
As a Cantonese native, my identity is deeply rooted in cultural diversity. I married an Australian with Sri Lankan, Polish, and Irish heritage, and our family’s experiences span New Zealand, Australia, Sri Lanka, and Italy. This unique perspective has given me the insight to explore the meaning of cultural connections.
Having lived in China for over 40 years, I have a rich life experience that forms a strong foundation for understanding and promoting cultural exchange. In Christchurch, New Zealand, I successfully organized international cultural festivals and Chinese New Year cultural events for the renowned Christ’s College. What makes me most proud is the volunteer cultural exchange trips I created—marine conservation and little blue penguin protection activities. These programs, blending Māori culture with environmental education, attracted many young Chinese participants and received high praise from New Zealand environmental organizations and Māori cultural groups. Before COVID-19, these eco-cultural trips were held at least five times and were widely celebrated.
In the future, I plan to initiate more cultural experience programs, educational travel, and artistic explorations across New Zealand, Australia, Sri Lanka, and Italy. Through these efforts, I hope to showcase cultural diversity and bring people closer together.
The Future Is Not a Dream
Some say dreams are far from reality. But I believe that by taking small steps daily, the future will become clearer. Whether in writing, life coaching, or cultural exchange, these new roles are mirrors of my growth, reflecting the infinite possibilities of life.
How about you? Is there a new role in your life quietly changing your life’s trajectory? Feel free to share your story with me, and let’s cheer each other on as we grow together!
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